The Flight/Avoidant Type

You are a hybrid of the fawn trauma response and avoidant attachment.

You engage in conflict avoidance, denying your own needs often becoming a scapegoat and target for abuse in your relationships.

The Flight/Avoidant Type

The The flight-avoidant type feels they have to be perfect in order to be lovable.  This type also avoids intimacy, vulnerability and connection by being a workaholic, hyper-independent, making themselves unavailable for a connected relationship.

Attraction from others feels unsafe and “too much”.  When their partners want more connection/quality time/responsiveness this can often result in emotional abandonment.  

This type is often not un tuned with their own emotional needs and as such won’t speak up for their needs in order to avoid conflict.  Paradoxically, they expect their partners to mind-read their emotional needs and will even shut down emotionally when they’re not met.  

This often feels dysregulating as they are frightened by 1. the fact that they have emotional needs and 2. the terrifying feelings that arise when they aren’t being met.  In an effort to regain control, they may withdraw to maintain control even if it means sabotaging the relationship so they can maintain their independence.

Hey there! I'm Ginger

I am a psychotherapist and founder of Loving Me After We where I help women overcome heartbreak, increase self-love and confidence after a toxic relationship so they can become the best version of themselves.

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I love that we’re able to share this information to help you dig deeper into the issues that torpedo your relationships.  Using this information, now you’ll recognize the patterns that secretly torpedo your relationships so that you can reset your heart and begin to feel safe and loved in your relationships.

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Self-paced course designed to:

  • Increase your awareness and create a growth mindset around your archetype
  • Unpack the life events that have contributed to your current archetype
  • Learn how to rewire your nervous system and discover the essential practices that help you feel safe and embody emotional security
  • BONUS: Conscious Dating Guide
  • BONUS:  Healing path for your archetype
  • BONUS: Communication scripts
  • BONUS: Self-talk scripts
  • BONUS: Love-languages for your archetype

1.

Step one

Awareness

Pay attention to where you feel triggered, irritated and on edge in your relationship.

JOURNAL:

  • Where do you feel the most out of control and fearful?
  • Journal about what this feels like as well as your fears around how it shows up in your relationship and what it would mean if these fears come true?
  • Have they?  If so, when was the first time these feelings landed for you?

2.

STEP two

the inner work

So that you can finally do this really amazing thing you’ve always wanted. 

So that you can finally do this really amazing thing you’ve always wanted.  

3.

STEP three

Body/Somatic Work

  • Learn how to rewire your nervous system so that you can heal your attachment style and the triggers which create your trauma responses
  • Discover the essential practices that help you feel safe and embody emotional security

4.

STEP four

Join the heart reset for $197

Self-paced course designed to:

  • Increase your awareness and create a growth mindset around your archetype
  • Unpack the life events that have contributed to your current archetype
  • Learn how to rewire your nervous system and discover the essential practices that help you feel safe and embody emotional security
  • BONUS: Conscious Dating Guide
  • BONUS:  Healing path for your archetype
  • BONUS: Communication scripts
  • BONUS: Self-talk scripts
  • BONUS: Love-languages for your archetype

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